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When things suddenly happen to you at once, you wonder why! Especially when they are heart-breaking circumstances or issues. Issues that could disorganize you, disturb your thoughts, and makes one lose focus. These issues most times come in for good reasons but most times we feel we can’t let go, at least that’s what you tell yourself. Having deep feelings of burdens not lifted.

The answer seems far away, the truth becomes a lie, the world becomes meaningless, confusion of the mind comes knocking. You wonder if you can even find love that is real because the story doesn’t have an end but a beginning. You think you have found the things that make you happy, you feel you have found what you are really looking for because everything seems smooth and beautiful at the moment.

Love is a beautiful feeling that comes deep down from the heart. Love sees and takes a person for whom he or she is, love does not see anyone as the color, love doesn’t care about who you are or where you are from, but believes in a common goal, patience, and endurance which all combine to form compatibility is the connection that brings two or more people together. 



Love is colorless, there is no stain, but it’s seeing you just the way you are; you have the ability even though the weaknesses may be there, all these combine together and are the things that make love beautiful. Even though the man or woman you know is really not what he/she claims to be, love should be handled with caution, most times we don’t know what we want because, in our heart, we seek for protection, security, and deep love. Love comes from the heart. Love is mutual, true love does not end. 

Love must come out of a commitment from the heart for each other; love should not be abused or misused, it simply involves imperfect persons loving each other in spite of their imperfection. Mistakes are allowed because they connect us to making the right decision in our relationship we are prone to mistakes and should learn from it. 

Love is enduring, blind, and experiences tears, pains, troubled-mind but patient in all the things that are right and wrong.

Love is sweet, real, and beautiful, but it’s a crucial emotional game of feelings. You lose when you get hooked up with the wrong person in a relationship and you win when you hooked up with the right person.



True love is enduring and it’s eternal, don’t walk out on true love for faults that can be handled with maturity. There is no perfect relationship but true love endures all things. Loving someone means a lot. It means you have my life and everything and in my happy moment and trials, you will always be there to cry, smile, cuddle, and strengthen me. It means all our everything, being committed to each other.

Yes! It means lots of temptation and there might be a lot of fallouts, comebacks, and weaknesses but it’s you and you only that can help yourself to stay firm, stand strong, disciplined and be happy, I must say, the journey is not always easy and have different phases in life. True love is simply saying “I have made up my mind to be with you, and you only, no matter what”. Even though, most people usually forget their commitment or vow nowadays we can’t still bank on past failures and disappointments, because the right person may come and pass away due to judgemental attitude initiated by past experiences.

Stop letting people deceive you through wrong advise, no relationship is perfect, practice endurance and stay safe, true love still exists, find one! Make sure he or she, is a responsible, and conscience-driven person!

True love is enduring many times over and over again and yet still loving. 

True love is the imperfect love that is made perfect.


This Post Has 5 Comments

  1. Nkem

    Love is so elusive, and I’m not sure the feeling can even really be put into words. It is something that has no biases though.

  2. Beautiful thoughts! I hope everyone finds the true love!

  3. I agree! True love takes commitment to another person no matter what, it isn’t always easy but it’s worth it

  4. Olufunke Kolapo

    Love is the most beautiful thing in life. After life, it is the greatest gift we have. Most times, we abuse and misuse, or even fail recognise and abuse when we see true love.

  5. Gamu

    Love is incredible. Great post thanks for sharing

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